Positivity – a side effect of watching the RuPaul Drag Race series

RuPaul is the mentor, the host, the singer and the judge of Drag Race, a reality show that follows 15 (sometimes more) drag queens as they compete to become America’s Next Drag Superstar.

If, like me you have been unaware of this show and if, also like me, you thought it had something to do with car racing, then perhaps like me you ended up checking it out one night on Netflix and got completely captivated and riveted to the series. I ended up spending 2 consecutive weekends binging on seasons 1 though 6. Yes, it is that good. Why? I don’t know why it is so good but sometimes, shows like this one defy standard reasoning. One thing that I did find is that watching RuPaul’s Drag Race will definitely put you in a good mood and you also tend to get very positive about life in general.

The show is very entertaining with the dramas, challenges, meltdowns and breakdowns, triumphs and failures, tears and laughs, and seriously impressive make up skills.

I think the fact that RuPaul does not take himself or life so seriously is what makes the show so uplifting. I like that he is not hung up about pronouns, and I love that he also sings even though he is not the best at it; that he has the ability to transform himself into an amazingly beautiful woman with a personality to match. Also, he has so many products he sells, I am sure he finds it hard to keep up with them all.  If only more people were like him: happy with who and what they are, can find the humour in life, don’t take themselves seriously and are always kind and authentic.

Then he sprouts those catch phrases and quotes that are a breath of fresh air, compared to the wishy-washy, new age and politically correct quotes that are so popular on social media.

Although, they do get stuck in your head.  Forever.

So  “can I get an amen in here” to 7 of RuPaul’s best…

• When you become the image of your own imagination, it's the most powerful thing you could ever do."
• My goal is to always come from a place of love ...but sometimes you just have to break it down for a motherfucker
• All sins are forgiven once you start making a lot of money.
• When the going gets tough, the tough reinvent. 
• Remember to love yourself, because if you can’t love yourself, how in the hell are you gonna love somebody else?
• Can I get an amen in here?
• You are born naked, the rest is drag. 

Reality Check... On Being Positive, All The Time!

I have wanted to write this blog for a while, but due to lack of time and mainly, life getting in the way , I had to put it on the back burner. However, after reading and listening to so much crap this weekend, I think its time has come....

I am fed up with the constant drivel and misinformation that keeps coming at us that in order to achieve  (fill in the blank...happiness, money, love, career) we need to be and stay in a positive state of mind...all the f***ing time. Apparently, the Universe gets pissed off when we veer off the "positivity" train of thought and then watch out...its payback time!  So, all that bad shit you are going through, well. you had a few negative thoughts, so what did you expect? 

Has anyone tried being positive all day, every day, all the time? Its exhausting and totally impractical.  Everyone has approximately 50,000-70,000 thoughts per day - this means we have between 35 and 48 thoughts per minute. My 50,000+ thoughts a day are usually a jumble of  good, bad and ugly ones...and depends largely on the type of day I am having or the mood I am in.

Chi ching!  But its big business... and so there are webinars, e-books, workshops, meditations, seminars and coaching readily available to help you achieve that 'positive' state of mind. The one that will open the doors to abundance, love, dream jobs, etc.                           

Does it work? You do the maths...